We women have been subject to all kinds of lame and even rude pick up lines, and they can be upsetting. Can I blink? That's hardly likely if you want laughter as the Asian Dating result! Choose words that aren't suggestive or flirtatious. Don't show that you are nervous. It can be a business suit,a nurse outfit,or a sexy spy costume or others like a french maid costume and etc. One thing that guys hate are, girls who aren't themselves. Without making sure you have broken it, you will find it really hard to improve your relationship. Avoid jokes that will plummet your standing in her mind. Ask if you can take a picture with him, because you've got to show your mom/friend/sister this long lost twin. More to the point, a person with a sense of humor is definitely the preferable choice for a lifelong commitment over a grouch! Do meet first dates in a public place and always let a friend or family member know where you'll be. Or he might not like getting picked up because it makes him feel insecure-and who wants a guy like that, anyway?